Honouring Pregnancy and Infant Loss in British Columbia This October
- Glacier Counselling
- Oct 1, 2025
- 2 min read
October marks the start of Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. As a perinatal therapist who supports individuals and families through the grief of miscarriage, stillbirth, and infant loss—and as someone who has experienced pregnancy loss myself—this month is deeply personal and meaningful.
Understanding Pregnancy and Infant Loss in BC
Pregnancy and infant loss is more common than many people realize. In British Columbia and across Canada:
1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage, often within the first 12 weeks.
1 in 125 pregnancies end in stillbirth, occurring after 20 weeks.
Neonatal death is the loss of a newborn within the first 28 days of life.
Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) can happen unexpectedly to infants under 12 months of age.
Each of these babies has a story and a family who loves them. Sadly, many families grieve in silence and isolation. Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month is an opportunity to share stories, challenge stigma, and honour the lives of babies gone too soon.
How to Get Involved in Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month
There are many ways to participate in October and show support for families navigating loss:
1. Join the Butterfly Run BC
On October 4, 2025, the Butterfly Support Network is hosting the Butterfly Run at locations across BC. This annual event raises awareness and funds for pregnancy and infant loss support.➡️ Glacier Counselling will be participating in Nanaimo. Learn more and register on the Butterfly Support Network website here.
2. Participate in the #WaveOfLight on October 15
Each year on October 15, families around the world light candles at 7:00 PM local time to honour babies lost too soon. This global event, known as the Wave of Light, creates a beautiful circle of remembrance across time zones. In BC, the Pacific Perinatal Society is hosting an in-person gathering at Beacon Hill Park in Victoria. More info is available online here.
3. Hold Space and Listen
Supporting this month doesn’t always require attending events. Simply being open to hearing stories, learning about the impact of loss, and holding compassionate space for others makes a difference.
We will be sharing more about pregnancy and Infant Loss throughout the month of October on social media. Follow along to learn more and hear about upcoming events.
Support for Pregnancy and Infant Loss in BC
If you or someone you love is grieving pregnancy or infant loss, you are not alone. These organizations provide invaluable support:
Butterfly Support Network – Peer mentorship, support groups, memorial events, and professional counselling for those experiencing infertility and loss.
Pacific Perinatal Foundation – Advocacy, support, and community for families navigating infertility and pregnancy loss.
Postpartum Support International (PSI) – Online resources, virtual support groups, and peer mentorship for perinatal mental health and loss.
Counselling for Pregnancy and Infant Loss in BC
Grief after pregnancy and infant loss can feel isolating, overwhelming, and deeply painful. You don’t have to navigate it alone.
I am currently accepting new clients:
In-person in the Comox Valley
Virtually across British Columbia
If you are looking for compassionate, personalized support, please reach out. Together, we can find ways to honour your loss and move toward healing at your own pace.
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